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One of the ways to find gay men online is to watch them on webcam. This may not have the same closeness as finding gay men for dating, but it [...]

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Pics Of A Very Hot Guy

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After making my last post and talking about the idea of hot gay men floating across the screen, I realised that this site looks a bit bare without pictures. So, [...]

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Finding A Gay Sex Partner

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After I made my last post, I got to thinking that maybe you now think I’m a shy kind of guy, but that’s not really true. I’ve already told you [...]

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About Finding Gay Men

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My name is John. I’m an ordinary kind of guy and I’m gay. I’ve known I was gay from an early age and I am lucky that my family have [...]

Procrastination

by John
Published on: March 27, 2011
Categories: Gay Dating, General Gay Stuff
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Already I’m procrastinating in my mission to find gay men to date. I’ve been messing around changing blog themes instead.

As I write this, I’m using a theme by Two Beers. I love it – it’s pretty cool with the floating text across the top.

But I think it may be overkill for this site as I’m not one of those guys who usually likes to watch ‘my latest work’ flashing across the screen in front of me (and you). Call me understated, lol!

Now, if I could find a way to have a picture of a hot gay man (or more than one…) flashing across the screen in front of me, that would be super cool. :)

But I’m supposed to be looking for gay guys to date, not messing about with blog themes, so this is procrastination of the highest order!

However, on a more serious note, all this procrastination does make me realise that my dick may be ready to meet a gay man for sex, but my head wants to take things a little slower.

My Gay Porn Collection

by John
Published on: March 26, 2011
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I guess that like many gay men, I have a pretty impressive collection of gay porn.

I began collecting mags as soon as I was old enough to bribe my older brother to buy them for me. when I look at them today, they bring a kind of nostalgia – back to the days when I first said out loud to someone that I was gay.

Nowadays, it’s more usual for me to look at gay porn movies of one type or another. At least the guys in the vids are moving, lol!

Porn satisfies a need in most of us – gay or straight. It’s jerk off and fantasy material I think it’s hard for most men to do without.

But watching my gay porn collection is nothing like feeling a real man in my bed, or even a guy to share my porn stash with.

So, when I find a gay man for a relationship, I hope he likes watching gay porn as much as I do. :)

Finding A Gay Sex Partner

by John
Published on: March 26, 2011
Categories: Gay Dating, Gay Sex
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After I made my last post, I got to thinking that maybe you now think I’m a shy kind of guy, but that’s not really true.

I’ve already told you that I’m a sexual kind of guy, so not to put to finer point on it, I’m looking for a gay guy who likes fucking.

I’m a top, so I’m looking for a bottom. I’ve tried sex the other way around, and it’s hot, but I wouldn’t really define myself as flexible, so as I’m looking for a gay sex partner with a view to a long time relationship, I think I’m going to have to make it clear that I’m a top right from the start.

See, right away I’m finding it’s not that easy finding gay men when you have to make a list of the type of guy you are looking for, and when what you say at the start could potentially turn a very hot guy off.

But now I’m set on my path, I’m confident of finding a gay sex partner, as long as good sex is on the agenda. :)

Looking For A Particular Type Of Gay Man

by John
Published on: March 25, 2011
Categories: Gay Dating
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As I said in my about page, I’ve known I’m gay for a long time, but like many gay guys I tried to deny it for quite a long time also.

It wasn’t that I was ashamed to be gay (I like it), it was just harder to fit in, or at least that’s how I felt. I was afraid I would be rejected by my peers, and going through school I wasn’t ready for that.

I guess that made me a bit of an introvert. I’m not really into ‘partying’ and I’m not the ‘look at me I’m gay’ kind of gay. I’m just me.

Clubbing is cool now and again, but not every night. Cruising I’ve tried and although it satisfies a need, it’s not really for me.

I’m really looking for a gay partner who won’t mind spending nights at home with me now and again and who accepts me for what I am.

What would be really cool would be to find a gay man who understands me and is still turned on by me. Let’s hope I get lucky. :)

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