My name is John. I’m an ordinary kind of guy and I’m gay.
I’ve known I was gay from an early age and I am lucky that my family have never made a huge deal about it. My mom just said “Yes, okay”. My dad said he was ‘concerned’, but not about me being gay, but about whether it would cause me problems as I grew up. So everything has been pretty cool in that respect.
I live in a fairly large town. There are a few ‘gay-haters’, but most folk are reasonable. Nevertheless, I have never made it a big thing to tell people I’m gay. They either know or they don’t. Why push my sexuality down their necks? I’ve found it’s much better to live my life as a guy who just happens to be gay. It’s easier all round.
However, although I’ve been looking for a relationship for some time, finding gay men to date hasn’t been easy.
There is one club in my town which caters mainly for gay men, but the guys who go there are either taken or cruising. And in any case, I like going to bars and clubs where everyone goes, gay or straight.
But there comes a time in a guy’s life when he wants more than a quick fuck (although that’s always nice), and it’s that time for me.
I’m looking for a gay guy who wants to spend more time with me than just for sex.
So I guess what I’m looking for is a gay man who is looking for a partner, but is also hot (yeah, I can be shallow that way – I can tell you right away, I’m a sexual kind of guy who needs a sex partner he has the hots for), and a guy who is on my wavelength.
So I’ve decided to set up this blog for three reasons:
- To talk about my progress in finding gay men.
- Keeping all the details in one place will probably help – and as I like using the internet for writing, I’m doing that here.
- You never know, this might help other gay men like me to find a partner.
Anyway, with that all said, I hope you like reading Finding Gay Men.
And please feel free to comment. I make mistakes and will probably need some advice about the whole gay dating scene along the way. 
